Question:What's up with this girl?
Answer:In sales, we consider face to face communication the king of all interactions. I consider it the same for all human interaction.
Answer:Step one is realizing that YOU aware the only person you have to please
Step two is, when in social situations, catching yourself in the act of trying to gain approval from others i.e. saying things you wouldn’t normally say or do because you think it will make the other person like you.
Step 3 is realize that what other people think of you doesn’t define you and shouldn’t matter to you, rather what should matter is what you think about yourself
Step 4 is practice the above and repeat to yourself everyday that the only approval you need is your own and do what feels right to YOU